Tantra and Sex

When you see people used "tantra" with "sex", you knew they made a big mistake.  They must mess up kundalini with sexual energy.   Spiritual Tantra talks kundalini.  Kundalini is not sexual energy.  Sexual energy is crude energy.  It is physical energy.  Worldly tantra talks about sexual energy, not kundalini-- two different products.  Kundalinii is a devine force and we called it Shiva Shaktii when it reaches sahasrara cake.  Kama means passion or physical desire. So you know what is kama yoga.  Don't practice with the wrong concept and with the wrong people. When people made this kind of mistake, they are far away from spiritual practice.  That's why they say how many times a month, we need balance, etc. 

In Buddhism, It mentions three levels of desire.  Below manipura cakra, it is called "desire" world, between manipura cakra and anahata cakra, it is called  "colorful world", color means all the tamatras come from different organs; above anahata cakra, it is called "no color world".  Started from anahata cakra and below all cakras would affect animal impulse desire in human being; above it, would effect the spiritual desire.  That's the reason why some sadhana teaching, their focus point only above annahata cake, we do the same.  Taoism, generally speaking, focus point is on the first or second cake.  Interesting thing is focusing on the 2nd cakra, really, you don't need to do asana and you can keep a healthy body.  But it provokes sexual desire.  All margii knows the reason why.  After long practice, they can keep their body for longer years, say over a thousand years.  You can get more information from taoism sutras.  What mentioned here is only an iceberg from china cara, In case of you are interested in knowing it.  that's why i write a little bit about it here.

There is a bottleneck on the practice for every single sadhaka-- how to save "energy" in the savings account?  The energy to open up all the channels for raise up kundalini.  We should start our spiritual practice as earlier as possible.  when  "age 5 ".  When a person is over 40 or older, still looks for the 2nd spring or the third spring, There is no scope of spiritual transformation with him or her.  40 is the age our system function is going down.  Regarding the physical energy transformation, the one who knows the secret will transcend the first stage and the second stage of sadhana directly into the third stage-ekendriya.  They are on the way to vashiikara.   Worldly sadhaka shuttles around yatamana and veyatireka back and forth.